Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Friends Don't Let Friends....

I wrote before about my "friend" who won't stop trying to engage the cancer conversation. I am now pretty sure she continues her campaign just so I will have a place to put any pent up anger. This weekend over pancakes at a local restaurant, she started again. I told her again: I am not talking to you about this. Pouting apology. "Well I want to support you." Well then, shut up and  pass the syrup."

Then there's Susan. She pops in with a meal just as I decide I am too exhausted to cook. She decides to fix a closet door that won't latch properly. She says: get your jacket, we're going to see Godzilla. We will eat popcorn and scream in terror and laugh at ourselves for watching this ridiculous movie with a theater full of nine year old boys!"

And my neighbor Bruce who checks in just to say hi. And Joyce who calls regularly and sends  me her birding photos. And Paula who leaves sweet messages of encouragement that I save and listen to over and over. And my work pal who calls for advice. And Katie who sends soup for my freezer. And my sister who has figured out the time difference so that her texts arrive just as I finish my Daily treatment. And my sweet daughter who thinks of surprises and shows up randomly at the beginning or end of a treatment with flowers, a hug, an ice cream cone.

I am so blessed.


Helen said...

You are, indeed, blessed which is a huge benefit as your journey unfolds. Embrace and use every ounce of the positive energy flowing your way.

One Woman's Journey - a journal being written from Woodhaven - her cottage in the woods. said...

Oh yes
so many blessings
and "this one"
wishes she was near.
you are in her thoughts
and prayers continually.

Wisewebwoman said...

With you in spirits, and there's always one which makes you appreciate the "other ones" just a little bit more :)


Mage said...

Good. It's all coming together and we all care. Hugs from here.